5 Things You Should Never Do When In A Fight With Your Partner
1. Never mention parents.
Your “quarrel” concerns you. And only you! So never touch the parents. An insult spoken about parents gets so deeply embedded in your partner that it takes years for him to forget it. If this happens, the problem now affects not only you as a couple, but the whole family. And not just his. It affects yours too. It turns into a feud. And even if the relationship between you is restored, believe me, the contradictions between the families remain and will become a “time bomb” in your lives.
2. Avoid violence. Just get it out of your brain.
The pain caused by your loved one completely destroys love. Forever. If you do stay with him, it will be a consequence of some addiction you have been placed in.
3. Never talk about divorce or separation right at this moment.
No matter what you say in the state of affect you are in, never say those words. If you constantly threaten divorce or separation, it will inevitably happen. You don’t want to realize after the argument that you still love him/her, but you are no longer together because of this “impulsive” divorce.
4. Never leave home during an argument.
It is better to skip the rant, keep quiet, and when your partner calms down, try to resolve the matter peacefully.
5. Do not go to bed in different rooms, on different beds.
You should sleep next to your partner as you did every other night before the argument. This is the best way to put an end to the built up tension. Maybe you will fall asleep with your backs to each other. But once you fall asleep, your daily habits will take over your emotions. And no wonder, when you wake up in the morning, you find your partner looking at you fondly and smiling. The end! The scandal is over.
