Chєαting is surely a big way to demolish a relationship, but there are a few other things that are much more destructive when it comes to ruining even the tightest of bonds.
Some of the ugliest things that can lead to a breakup (besides chєαting) start as small and indiscernible, and that’s exactly what makes them so dangerous.
There are other serious issues — different than chєαting— which are as catastrophic and might be reasons for a break-up. Below are the 8 most common relationship problems
1. Lies
Lies he’s telling might not seem like much. You won’t even notice the small lies he tells like he told you that he is going to be late at work but he was actually at a friend’s watching the match instead. The small lies you probably ignore all the time but you need to draw a line between innocent lies and dangerous untruths.
2. Convenience
Sometimes it’s only you who invests in the relationship. However, if you notice that he isn’t as invested or is not putting in the same effort, you don’t really need him in your lie.
3. Jealousy
If you notice that he is not able to trust you and you need your space, then maybe you are in the wrong relationship. Excessive jealousy can fast turn into a horrible relationship breaker.
4. Fake
We all present ourselves better during the first few dates, but eventually, if the mask doesn’t fall off, chances are he is hiding something from you or he doesn’t trust you enough to be himself.
5. Quiet resentment
Communication is the key to a good relationship. You let everything out and never hold things inside.If your partner is holding a grudge, its best to sit him or her down and talk it out.
6. Fear of being alone
This is one of our deepest fears and also a good excuse for some people to stay with a partner they no longer love. But not letting go of the person we cherish anymore is a double-edged sword. On one hand, we are maintaining a relationship that leads to a dead-end street, while on the other hand, we are losing precious time to find a better partner.
7. Lack of communication
Controlling our emotions is important but expressing them is crucial. If we can’t share our most intimate thoughts with our loved ones, the relationship is not on the right track. The lack of communication is a common problem and not only because one of the partners is not into talking. Living a busy life may also seriously affect how often the partners discuss things together.
8. Sharing your secrets with someone else than your partner
Loving someone means you’re able and need to show them all your vulnerabilities that you wouldn’t dare show anyone else. You become emotionally dependant on each other and can always lean on each other. But when your partner chooses to share their secrets with another person, it means that their emotional needs are taken care of by that person and not by you. If you are not the first person they share their news with, they no longer have the same bond with you that they once had.
