The world is full of men who refuse to grow up and by detecting these statements, you can quickly recognize them and actively avoid them.
1. “All of my exes are crazy”
This is a “red flag” for both men and women, a sign of a person lacking wisdom and maturity. No matter who says this, it is a sure sign that they lack wisdom and maturity.
Meanwhile, the act of blaming others is childish and only immature people do. Such a person will not learn anything from his mistakes.
2. “It’s not my fault”
A person who refuses to grow up always finds a way to avoid responsibility. No matter what happens, it’s never their fault. They always have reasons not to take responsibility for the negative things that happen to them but always receive good things for themselves.
3. “I’m so unlucky.”
People who consider themselves unlucky may not realize that they are creating their own unhappiness. When they cannot blame others, they blame life and fate. When encountering things that don’t go their way, their first reaction is to complain about their bad luck.
4. “Emotions are only for the weak”
Many people are taught from an early age that showing any emotion is a sign of weakness. However, adults understand that emotions are part of life and that life would be poorer without them. At the same time, they understand that emotions are not something that will shape their decisions in life.
5. “Why read books when you have the Internet?”
Be careful with men who don’t read books.
6. “Someone should do something”
A wise and mature man accepts responsibility for changing the things he can change and does not blame himself for the things he cannot. A man who hasn’t learned that has a lot of growing up to do.
7. “Sorry makes you weak”
A man who has not learned the power of a sincere apology can hardly call himself a man. We are all human and we all make mistakes. What makes a wise person different is that they take responsibility for those mistakes and apologize when they know they are wrong.
8. “I am never wrong”
That person is willing to argue until they are blue in the face to justify their actions, twisting logic and distorting facts to make themselves look better in every situation. Meanwhile, wise people know that no one is perfect. And in fact, the more you walk on the path of self-awareness and maturity, the more you realize how imperfect you are and how much you make mistakes.
