All girls have their own idea of the perfect man- the kind of man they hope to find one day, the man they can spend their entire lives with. So some girls will prefer tall guys, some prefer short. Some want a guy who they can have fun with, while others just want someone to share their deepest darkest side with. But no matter what kind of physical attributes or personality traits you prefer, one thing that remains an essential requirement for all girls is ‘loyalty’ and there are no two opinions about this!
So if you want to assure yourself of your man’s loyalty, look out for the following signs in him.
1. He deletes all of the dating apps he created before meeting you.
At this age, looking for love, affection, or just someone to talk to means scrolling through your fingertips; cheating can be done easily. And sometimes, what we believe as “harmless” conversations can further lead to the ruin of relationships. So what is the point of keeping them? He would no longer need to use these as backup plans because you are already with him.
2. He never takes you for granted.
You would feel if you are his priority and not just an option. If you two have made plans together on the same day his friend decided to watch a basketball game, he won’t leave you hanging at the last minute. Whenever he makes an important decision, he considers your opinion as a big contributing factor.
3. He never puts himself in situations where he is tempted to c.h.e.a.t.
Was he meeting with another woman on late nights? Trying to get closer to a good-looking officemate of his? Responding to a flirtatious text of a female acquaintance? No, he avoids trapping himself in a situation that can lead him to c.h.e.a.t before it’s too late.
4. He never keeps a secret from you, no matter how small.
When it comes to you, he is an open book. He tells almost everything, including his social media account password. This is not about you being suspicious and that you do not trust him, but rather, he is just comfortable, probably because he does not have anything to hide.
5. He has good morals.
He surrounds himself with friends and mentor who helps him grow morally upright. Someone who has a good moral ascendency would not be easily lured to temporary pleasures that might corrupt their integrity not just as a partner, but also as a person.
6. He has female friends, but he set clear boundaries with them.
It does not matter if he has a lot of female friends. What matters is that you two have set clear boundaries of what actions, words, and thoughts count as crossing the line. Hand holding, tight lingering hugs, and daydreaming about someone else automatically count as crossing the boundaries.
7. He doesn’t mind doing anything for you.
He makes sure you are okay and safe even though it is inconvenient to him to do so because he wants to feel you are loved. If you are sick, he’ll show up with a warm soup and some of your favorite food. If you are sad, he will be a shoulder to cry on. By being there by your side through the good and especially, bad days, you’ll know he’s a loyal man.
8. He stands up for your relationship.
Between talking crap and seeking advice, he knows a big difference. Even if the two of you had a big fight, he doesn’t talk crap about you or the relationship. This is simply because he respects you and your relationship.
9. He makes sacrifices for you.
Got that dream job in a faraway city? As romantic as it may sound, he would move mountains or cities just to be with you.
10. You survived a long-distance relationship.
Being in a long-distance relationship is no joke. We’ve heard countless times of couples breaking up due to distance. It’s hard and scary. But it was the love, loyalty, and faithfulness you gave towards each other that would help you make it through the everyday challenges.
11. He compliments you at random moments.
He compliments you even on days you do not feel you are at your best—days when you didn’t put on your make-up or blow-dried your hair. It just means to say he appreciates you as you are, and not just on days you are all dolled-up.
12. He’s told his family and friends about you.
When you are together, he does not hide or panic at the sight of his family, friends or acquaintances because he does not feel ashamed in admitting his feelings for you. He has told his friends almost everything about you- from how you’ve met and how and why he was totally in love with you.
References: inspiringtips.com
