It’s true that being open and honest with your partner is extremely important. The healthiest couples confide in each other, talk about their fears and aspirations and trust each other completely.
However, there are also questions that must be avoided. The answers won’t have any positive impact on you or him, asking them makes you both uncomfortable, and most of the time they make you look insecure or not confident. Let’s take a look at a few questions you should never ask your man.
1. How much do you love me?
Let’s start with this, in certain situations, annoying question. I know many girls have a habit of poking our boyfriends with this infamous question we would love to get an answer for. But honestly, it’s not a guys speciality to answer on it. They would do anything to prove their love for you, except for answers to this question. Speaking honestly, this question only makes you look lame. No kidding!
2. Do you ⓜⓐⓢⓣⓤⓡⓑⓐⓣⓔ? How often?
The fact is that even if they have a happy ⓢⓔⓧⓤⓐⓛ life, almost all men jack off. It’s how it is, but they definitely wouldn’t want to be asked about their ⓜⓐⓢⓣⓤⓡⓑⓐⓣⓘⓝⓖ habits.
3. Would you give up your hobby and spend time with me instead?
If you really want to piss him off and are not interested in a long term relationship, then proceed with this question. Otherwise, don’t cut him off from the world, don’t bind him!
4. Are your parents going to stay with us after marriage?
You should NEVER ever ask this question! Stop immediately!
5. Are you in yet?
Men don’t like to be questioned about their d…s; especially when they are ⓜⓐⓚⓘⓝⓖ ⓛⓞⓥⓔ.
6. If your ex-girlfriend wanted you back, would you leave me for her?
What sort of a question is this? Why would you even ask such a thing? Isn’t the answer an obvious “NO”? Not everything needs to come from the horse’s mouth.
7. If you were to choose between me and your best friend, who would it be?
Unless you are ready for a stupid response, don’t dare ask this question!
8. If there was one thing you would want to change about me, what would it be?
Do you really think he will say it to your face? He doesn’t want a melodrama to be following this question, provided he comes out too honest about your expectations.
9. What lengths can you go to in order to prove your love for me?
What do you want him to say? He ain’t a Hollywood actor movie boasting his star-plucking prowess.
10. We can still be friends, right?
If he has loved you with all his heart, then “being friend-zoned” can not be easy for him. A man can either be “your man” or “nothing”, there is no something in between. You have broken his heart and it is gonna take some time for him to get over you. Let him recover from the loss and not continue missing you.
11. What do you like the most about me?
Men, unlike women, are not calculative. When they love you truly they don’t quantify. It is almost impossible for him to actually find out that one thing about you that he loves the most. For example, if he fell for your smile first, it is no longer the focal point of love for him. And he also knows that if he does point it out, you would bombard him with more questions like “My smile is the only thing you like about me?”, “that’s it?”, “What about my eyes?”, “….annndddd?”.
12. Can you leave all your wealth and property for me?
For men, this calculation is not understandable.
13. How many women have you slept with?
You only can shoot this question if you want to make him feel awkward and are open to being lied to.
14. Would you date or marry someone else if I ᴅɪᴇᴅ?
Just imagine that he asked you this question, now what would your answer be? Hmmmmm, difficult, isn’t it?
15. Do you remember the date we first kissed?
Expecting him to remember your birthday and anniversary is justified, but your first kiss anniversary, first hug anniversary, first ⓢⓔⓧ anniversary is also a bit too much unless he is a human calendar!
