Why Does A Married Man Fall In Love With Another Woman When He Has Everything He Needs For A Happy Life?
Can a married man fall in love with another woman?
Undoubtedly! Even if the love for his wife was strong, exciting, unforgettable, even if the wife continued to take care of herself, was so good in bed, gave birth to wonderful children…
But why does a man fall for another woman when he has everything he needs for a happy life?
One of the most common reasons for a married man to be overwhelmed by feelings for another woman is the feeling of his own inferiority in the family.
When the euphoria of love passes and family crises occur, spouses often move away from each other, isolate themselves, keep silent about conflicts, which leads the relationship to a dead end.
Outwardly, people can look absolutely happy and their marriage is perfect, but in the soul of each of the spouses (to a greater or lesser extent) emptiness is slowly growing.
How not to confuse true love with fleeting feelings?
Falling in love is a whole complex of brightly colored feelings that can easily be confused with true love. This is flirting, excitement from phone calls and SMS, dizziness from smells, emotional rush from just one look, etc.
Falling in love prevents us from really assessing what is happening, we become blind, desperately not noticing the flaws of the object of our desire. Added to all this is an irresistible physical attraction, due to which the man “loses his head”.
A married man can love his mistress with every cell of his soul (so it seems to him), but as a rule, after a while his feelings subside. At first, he feels passion, a feeling of flight, excitement, but crazy emotions, after achieving the desired (sleeping with her), take on a completely different form, where the meetings of lovers become simply a classic form of relationship.
What is true love?
Love, on the other hand, is characterized by trepidation, caution, tenderness. To love – to want to be with the person around the clock, to help, protect, take care, but at the same time to remain yourself. This feeling goes hand in hand with respect, care, tenderness, affection, responsibility. If a married man finds the meaning of life in his mistress, he will not be able to hide his love for her from his wife.
A man in love who respects his wife and values his family will try to silence his feelings, even the strongest ones. Otherwise, nothing will prevent him from surrendering to all-consuming love.
